I wanted to share with you that following you last email i changed my profile using what I learned from you. The caliber of men contacting me changed immediately and one of them is beautiful. He has behaved exactly how you and all the experts have described!!!. We met for a tea during the day and then sat in a park as he wanted to go through my profile to ensure he understood every aspect of it. He invited me to dinner the following night and told me that the most important thing for him was that i felt safe and that he just wanted to get to know me.  I can tell he’s a keeper. 
 

Joanna K

My experience with Iris has been transformational and rewarding. Iris has been helping me navigate through many of the historical elements of my life that have been getting in my way of not only eventually  finding  the man who will cherish me for the woman that I am but also helping me clear the unhelpful patterns that are present in all of my relationships.  It feels good to take a stand for my worth and value without apologizing for myself. Iris’s forthright, gentle, warm, playful, compassionate and authentic style works for me. I really appreciate her.  

Lori C.

I feel internally a huge shift. With one man I asked him to give me some space while I dealt with a situation and he did that and I would have never done that in the past. I wouldn’t have asked for that.

I feel a lot more confident. I can identify what I want. And I see myself taking a lot more time in relationships – I used to jump right in and not look at what was there for the long haul – I feel the transformation on a gut level. I feel wonderful. I’m having the best time ever. 

Maryann

I got the hope, the green light, the initiative, that I didn’t have to stay stuck, you were the helping hand you reached out grabbed and said “Come with me, it’s OK!” It doesn’t have to be like this, you don’t have to stay here.  You’re allowed.  Iris was my green light. Iris helped me find the direction and go forward.
 

Shannon S.

Through listening to you coach another woman in our LACY group I realized how in my past relationships I had been settling for crumbs now that I'm fully aware I can go for the whole cake and now I have been more & more motivated & encouraged to take action .

Laura Tribble

I am noticing that I am not so afraid of making mistakes anymore. That feels so liberating! I have realized that I am not suppose to be perfect , that I am here to learn and that with every mistake I become a better person and I LOVE IT!! :)

Melissa Gomez

Iris, you kicked my butt (in the most essential way) and I really, really needed it! Also today, I got that additional reinforcement that what I have been settling for is seriously not good enough!! I am now committed to having only the most extraordinary relationship(s) going forward!! Thank you for all you do for me (and the group)

Mona Freeman Holzberg

When I started the program, I was a very insecure person. I had a lot of issues expressing myself.  I couldn’t even talk to guys.  So when I decided to take the program I was very nervous. It was hard decision for me to make but something inside was telling me just do it and go for it. So, I began the program and yes it opened my eyes and I began to realise a lot of things within myself that I need to change and overcome.”
 
So after doing the program I have faced a lot of fears that were inside of me and I have been able to work through those fears and get past those fears. 
 
Actually, my life has changed a lot, dramatically!
 
I enrolled in the program because I realized I never valued myself, put myself first, took care of myself first. I realized I never did my whole life because I was a doormat and allowed people especially guys to get on top of me because I thought I was pleasing them and going to make them happy If I did that and but it was a really painful experience and yet it was opposite like they didn’t value me, they didn’t respect me. I felt lonely. I was married for more than 10 years and my marriage was very violent and really had awful experiences. But now it is very different. I have enrolled myself even in a university and doing double degree. I am a single mother and have two children.  I am enjoying myself and I guess learning to be my own self, be my own lover. This is what I want in my life to be able to be happy with me and with what I have.
 
Of course I couldn’t have done it without you Iris. I remember you telling me all this. So thank You!
 
You changed my life. You are going to make me cry. I am glad it is so worth it and really you opened my life to see this new door that was standing right there and to really get on my feet and it’s so worth it.
 
I just feel so happy and light and I don’t want to give up. I feel strong inside even though life gets so hard sometimes, stuff happens but If something happens, If something happens I am able to recover very quickly.  Thank you!
 
Melissa G. 

I am starting to date someone that I really really like now and he, I didn’t tell you Iris about that , we had this conversation Monday and he said that he was amazed of my capacity to be with him and be present for him while he was processing his whole new feelings he was having for me was breathtaking.  He appreciates me in the way that makes me feel so beautiful.  So there is this place inside me that is available to receive those things and that place didn’t exist before. It is beautiful. 
 
The quality of the men I have been attracting is just amazing how they treat me, how they value my company, opinions Recently with another man I was dating when the red flags started to appear, I didn’t have any doubts as before. I was just able to walk away from that relationship and I feel very empowered and for me that was amazing because before I was so needy, clingy and anxious about what the other person wanted and needed me and that’s not the case any more.
 
Since taking the program I am way more confident with who I am and more in touch with my own needs, feelings, and not afraid of speaking up or being who I am not only in front of men but in all my relationships.  It feels so good to just allow yourself to be who you are without any fears of  or expectations of being accepted or being my hopes for the women in this program and for every women in this planet is to still be able to connect with their own inner value and their own beauty and to understand that there is this beautiful place inside where you can  shine and give so much love and receive so much love without feeling insecure and fearful. I didn’t know the place inside of me existed. Before I started this program I was in a very hard place and dark place, after my divorce.  I was praying for some guidance and help from the universe and the first time I spoke to Iris, she challenged me to step up for myself and to make that decision. It opened for me the possibilities for a new me to be born. I think this is a journey that every woman should have the opportunity to take and luck
 
Constanza R. 

I’ve learned so much, more than I thought I would, In the past I would have worried about what do men want, am I good enough, trying to prove that I’m good enough, I think that it’s a big deal to learn that I’m “buying”, to feel I’m enough, I am a prize, I’m independent, I don’t need a man, I don’t need a man to survive but I need a man to thrive.  I’ve had some awful dating in past but am now meeting great men.  I changed with how I date online, I’m comfortable that I’m ok and for the first time I’ve gotten responses and likes from men who are more intelligent, that was a huge difference for me. Thanks for doing all of this, I feel different about myself inside and with men, it’s part your patience and the info you shared, and I appreciate that and I want to say thank you. 

Deborah L.

Wow!  I learned so much.  A lot about myself, what I like what I don’t like.  Things from my past that were influencing the decisions I was making .  It opened my eyes to myself and what I gained from the program is total confidence.  I lacked confidence and I look forward to each day.  
The men I’m meeting now versus the men I met before are so far off the chart and that means a lot because we’re starting with common interests and common ground.  Now that I’ve completed the program I now believe to the core of my soul that he’s out there waiting for me and I just haven’t found him yet. And I am going to find him.  It has made such a huge difference how I treat every day.  I like myself.  I’m happy with myself.  So, I’m happy and grateful and really looking forward to the next chapter.  
 
If you’re reading this, I wish that you take everything’s that’s offered in this course.  Do the whole process right to the end and grow how I did and grow the confidence and see that big light at the end of the tunnel and find the man f your dreams.  Good luck and have fun!  He’s out there waiting for you! 
 
Deb D.

Hi Iris. I’m so happy I found you! When I listened to your five lessons you had last month, I knew I was meant to work with you.. Thank you for sharing your stories. They help me more than you know.   Thank you for being so authentic and generous because it helps so much. I’m excited to work with you! With so much appreciation

Stacy Lieberman

Before this program started, I was very single.  I’m so excited about how things are evolving in my life.  I learned my core values and my needs and how to get those met. I learned how to identify how to avoid the wrong men and broke free of a relationship that didn’t make me happy and then Mike came along.  I had an epiphany moment and I started to really at peace with the process.  I never got to date #2 and we got to date #8.  After a few more dates he’s been the answer to my prayers and he asked me to be his ‘honey’ and his ‘woman’.  I now have a magical experience and beautiful relationship.  
 
Markeyta

I learned to value myself, to really listen to my body ant it’s something I used to ignore.  Now that I’ve learned the skills, I feel much better about online dating, I used to dread it.  I was always nice and i learned to speak up and that has made a huge difference.  I used to be nice at the expense of myself and now I’m much lighter. Last night I talked to this guy and I could tell this guy is not a match for me and I actually spoke up and said we’re not a match. It was wonderful, in the past I wouldn’t have just been nice and stayed on the call.  I did both of us a favor,  
I decided I need more intense help and you resonated with me. I went to a therapist because I didn’t have the tools and it didn’t help me at all.  I’ve dealt with other coaches and I didn’t get what I needed.  I decided I needed the skills to dating and it was amazing.  So thank you! 
 
Popi C.

I really wasn’t looking to find a man of my dreams. I wanted to find me again. I’m feeling more confident. I now have two men I’m dating and I had 2 dates for one night last night and had to say “I’m busy…and I haven’t done that in a long time.” I’m not overthinking it so I’m asking a lot more questions and I’m working on the intimacy piece. I’m not worried about asking more questions and I used to be. So it’s been fun to practice and I do feel more confident and being able to speak up without all the mind chatter I was having. That’s a huge relief and I’m getting help which I’ve never had before and I said ‘Thank you that showed up” where I’ve felt I had to do everything myself because I couldn’t count on people.  I’ve shifted my thoughts and beliefs and have more grace, ease and love.  I don’t feel so alone.
 
Photo of wedding Maya Collins Very excited, and thank you for Loved and Adored and taking me through this journey it was a long and at times very painful road but i am in a very happy place now, actually happiest I've ever been. 😚😙😙😙

KT

Iris is incredibly skillful in her approach.  Through well-timed questions and observations, she has supported me in becoming increasingly clear about who I am and what I am capable of.  As a result of my work with Iris, I have begun to set healthy boundaries for myself by learning to let go of feeling responsible for others’ behaviors. 

I also understand myself and my needs at a much deeper level.  With Iris’ help, I am learning to let go of relationships that didn’t align with my needs and values.  All of this has led me to a place where I recognize my value and what I have to offer to all of the people in my life.  I feel a greater sense of peace and confidence in my personal life by developing a greater trust in myself. 
In the workplace, I have stepped into greater leadership in a senior position that originally challenged me.  Now, I am much stronger and clearer in my communication with my boss and the people I manage.  I am able to honor my values and integrity and I am able to lead from strength and focus as I encourage staff to step up as well to their full potential.

Thanks for all that you do

Ann